2018 You are A Boss Lady Facebook Challenge

2018 You are A Boss Lady Facebook Challenge

“I just really hope it will inspire even one other woman to change her life like I did and finally BELIEVE it’s possible.”


The 2018 You are a Boss Lady Facebook Challenge

Are you ready for this? I’m running another challenge, and this one is for Boss Ladies! I think it’s so important to give value to my audience, and it’s also important to reach a lot more of you so I can get the value out there to as many awesome women as possible. That’s why I’m running a new challenge! But this challenge isn’t for any and everyone. It’s for women, specifically women who are tired of feeling stuck and need a little inspiration to move forward with their goals in life!

About six months ago I knew I was done being STUCK and ready to TAKE CHARGE of my life. I was done feeling guilty, unsure, and depressed. I was done letting life happen to me instead of making it work FOR ME.  But, I didn’t exactly know what that meant. The book that catapulted me into action was, You are a Badass by Jen Sincero, and that book is what inspired this challenge! And part of what inspired The Total Boss Lady Transformation coaching program.

YOU ARE A BADASS is THE reason I decided to get off my ass, stop feeling sorry for myself, and MAKE SHIT HAPPEN. And now, I want to give that book to you! I AM NOT being paid to promote this book, although that would be awesome…

I just really hope it will inspire even ONE other woman to change her life like I did and finally BELIEVE it’s possible. This challenge will help us both. It will allow you to make the decision that you’re ready for the next step in your life, and it will allow me to reach more women like you.

I don’t have a huge following yet…so if you’re seeing this, and you decide to take me up on the challenge, you have a really good shot at winning.

Even if you’re scared, do it anyway! Because that’s how you tell the Universe you’re ready to go. Because you’re not just a Badass, You’re a Boss Lady!


What you need to do:

The Biggest Part of the Challenge:

1. Share my Facebook Page, on your personal page, with a statement from you, DECLARING to your family and friends (in your own words), that you are DONE feeling stuck and are ready to take charge of your life. This can be about anything you’re struggling with right now. Maybe you don’t know your purpose. Maybe you need to lose weight and get healthy. Maybe you need the guts to finally quit your job and pursue your business. You don’t actually have to tell people what your goal is, if you’re not comfortable, but just make a statement saying you’re taking the challenge because you’re ready to move forward in life. The more vulnerable you are, the better, because the Universe needs to know you’re taking action…even uncomfortable action…to move forward with your goals. You may not know HOW to do that yet, but you are READY to get hell-bent on changing your life.

In a way, this challenge seems pretty simple, but in another way, it’s not. Why? Because this is your gesture to the Universe that you’re ready. That you’ve decided to decide. That you’re going to do what it takes. Because you’re letting everyone know, “I’m going to make the change. I’m done bullshitting around.”

Then, the Easy Steps:

2. Like my Facebook Page, @TheWiserLife

3. Subscribe to my email list in the Sidebar on this page > > > > > > > > 

4. Comment on this Facebook thread that you have completed these tasks and are ready to smash your 2018 goal of _____________.


I know this is asking a lot, so I want to make sure you get A LOT of value.

What Everyone Gets:

*** 5 Ways to Be a Boss Lady at Money Mindset  workbook to help you get clear on your money mindset and do the work to attract more money into your life (sent after you subscribe to my list)
*** The Chance to Win the GRAND Boss Lady Prize (See below)


What 10 People Get:

***A Scheduled, 30 Min, NO PITCH Private Coaching Chat Session with Me on Facebook where we can discuss your goals, your struggles, and what you can do to get there faster and with more peace and clarity. I will absolutely not ask you to buy my program. This is for your value only so I will not market to you.


What 5 People Get:

*** A FREE, No Pitch, 50-minute coaching call scheduled with me!
I will absolutely not ask you to buy my program on this call. I will focus solely on your goals, what’s not working, and what you can do now to move forward.  Get clear, get motivated, get inspired to start working on your dream life! No strings attached! We can come up with an action plan to get you moving in the right direction.


What 2 People Get :

*** A FREE copy of You are a Badass, by Jen Sincero. Sent directly to you from Amazon.
I am absolutely not being paid any commission to promote her…I just really, really love her and want my readers to experience the same mindset transformation I did by reading her book.



*** A FREE, No Pitch 50-minute coaching call with me!

*** An additional 30 minute Facebook chat coaching session scheduled with me at a later date to keep you accountable and get you refocused.

*** A FREE copy of You are a Badass, by Jen Sincero.

*** And a cute Journal, so you can start doing the mindset work required to move forward and let go of all the negative shit!



Winners are chosen at a random from the comment thread. For each prize, I will choose a winner based on a random number that I draw (from the number of comments), correspond that number to the person on the comment thread, then double-check that you have completed each task before I announce which prize you won.

Please do not participate unless you are fully excited about the possibility of each prize.

This challenge requires that at least 18 people participate…so if that does not happen, I reserve the right to cancel the challenge or to modify it in whatever way I see fit.

Challenge ends Sunday, February 18th at 10:00 am CST – unless otherwise extended.

Winners will be announced Sunday, February 18th at 7 pm! CST


Let’s Do THIS

This is an awesome way for you to show the Universe you mean business and are ready to take your life to the next level.

Comment below if you’re excited about this challenge! I look forward to working with some of you.

Are you ready? Let’s GO!

Much Love,






Have Faith in the Universe, for it WILL Take You Places

Have Faith in the Universe, for it WILL Take You Places

“Once you change your mindset the Universe delivers what you need in a lot of funny ways.”


Things for me are really moving for me since deciding to get serious about starting my coaching business. 

But even before that, ever since I decided to change my mindset, my life followed suit. Now I’m taking action like a true Boss Lady! Things are really happening and I’m even attracting awesome connections into my life. Here’s the 411…

Wait, does anyone even know what that means anymore? Haha!

  1. I made an awesome new friend!
  2. I have a beautiful new work space!
  3. I finished my premium program outline! Which I will launch in a MONTH
  4. I’m offering an awesome new FREE workbook for Money Mindset!

My New Friend!

I connected with a wonderful woman in a Facebook group who was just looking for a little guidance on becoming a coach. She happened to also be experienced in business startup…so it was a perfect match! I gave her coaching advice and she gave me business advice. Plus, we had so much in common that I’m sure we’re going to be real, supportive friends!

Once you change your mindset the Universe delivers what you need in a lot of funny ways.


My New Work Space!

Also, this week my husband finished the desk he’s been working on and now I finally have a beautiful work space set up to do my coaching business. Having a beautiful space for you to be creative in is so important! I love it! I’m also so grateful to be married to man who supports me in my dreams. Isn’t it amazing?

My New Program!

I’ve got the outline of my program all set up and I’m ready to start making content!

My 4 Month program is going to focus on goal setting first (so we know what we’re working towards), letting go of all the “shit” in your life (all the stuff that holds you back), taking care of #1 (YOU!), and then making shit happen! The last part of the program focusses on kicking your faith and action into high-gear so that you feel so much more confident about your ability to handle whatever the future holds!  I’m will be offering free Breakthrough coaching calls soon, so be sure to reply if you’re already thinking about signing up for this amazing program. I launch in a month!

Spots are very limited as I can only handle about 4 Premium Clients per month.


My New Workbook!

Also, I’ve been eagerly working on my first workbook that I will use in the premium program about Money Mindset.  I’m designing for my clients but will offer it as a FREE gift to anyone else who signs up for my email list. Here’s the cover. I hope you’re as excited about it as I am. The information in this workbook is what helped me manifest the money to sign up for a coaching certification program AND hire a business coach. Before my shift in mindset, I would have just surrendered to my limiting beliefs that I could NEVER afford to do something like this, or have the GUTS to take that kind of financial risk. And never, would I EVER have believed I could start my business.

It’s not available yet, but don’t worry. As soon as I make it available on my site, you can enter your email and sign up for it as a THANK YOU for being my awesome subscriber!

Remember: You are the Boss Lady of your life!

Screw fear.
Screw doubt.
Screw limiting beliefs!



And you can do it all without permission from anyone else but yourself!

Have a wonderful week!

Please comment below and tell me about any WINS in your life! Or maybe you’re struggling. I’d love to give a few tips on how to handle anything life throws your way.

Also, I would LOVE LOVE LOVE for you to Like my page on Facebook!

Happy Sunday, and Thanks for reading!

Much Love,

An Update on My Mom and Me

An Update on My Mom and Me

It’s so difficult sometimes to take a deep, intentional breath and just be grateful for all that you have and all that will be, and to surrender your struggle to the Universe.”


Hey, awesome ladies!

Isn’t Tuesday great? I can never decide on Tacos or Tequila…

I’m kidding. A little…

If you’ve been paying attention to my posts on social media, you know it’s been a rough month for my family. My mother is very sick and we still don’t know what to expect. I saw her yesterday and held her hand and let her know I was thinking about her and how I wished I could make her feel better. She’s currently receiving dialysis and not communicating well because she’s so weak. I love her very much so please send her all of your positive vibes! This is my favorite picture of she and me taken about 6 years ago. It’s a little blurry! She was just about to kiss my head!

It wasn’t easy for my mom to be a mom. I understand that now. But one thing she does that no other person I know has ever been able to match…is love me completely and wholly unconditionally. She taught me that real love is infinite.

To say I’m having a hard time right now is an understatement.

I’m moving at a snail’s pace.  I’m trying to overcome all the pain and self-doubt that’s creeping into my system.

But I’ve struggled with hard situations like this and more from a very young age.

It’s so difficult sometimes to take a deep, intentional breath and just be grateful for all that you have and all that will be, and to surrender your struggle to the Universe.

But that’s exactly what we have to do. Because that’s what allows us to find our inner power and strength!

That’s what allows us to grow instead of remaining stuck!

I don’t know what you’ve been through…but my life has been pretty difficult. I’ve lived through poverty, abuse, depression, and a suicide attempt. I’ve witnessed much of my family fall ill or die from addiction. I’ve started and quit many jobs because I felt so confused about my purpose.

But once I started teaching, things changed for me. I finally got a little taste of the purpose-filled life and what it feels like to inspire. From there I grew into a personal development nerd and finally, I decided to just put all my faith into designing my life and creating my coaching business.

I’m not all the way there yet… It’s so much more about the journey than the destination! But I have come so far in my growth mindset because I decided…

Screw fear.

Screw doubt.

Screw limiting beliefs!

I feel like I can DO ANYTHING.

I feel like I can BE ANYTHING.

I feel like my life is a direct reflection of my INTENTIONS.

I’m going to make shit happen.

And even when I have to endure more difficult situations, I know now that I’m not going to fall apart. I know I’m going to be just fine.

That’s just who I am now. And it feels great!


So, what’s holding you back? What are your goals? What pain are you unable to move through?

I would love to connect with you and find out more about your struggle, and give you some coaching techniques to move past them! I’m warming up my coaching muscles. I want to support and stretch you.

I am absolutely not selling anything. I just want to start connecting with those of you who have similar stories of emotional pain. I want to build a community of women supporting other women.

Just comment below or email me!

I hope you choose to make this week wonderful, despite all your obstacles. I want you to stay the course!

Happy Tuesday, and Thanks for reading!

Much Love,

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